” To commit, is…

” To commit, is to do and to do is to feel accomplished and good about oneself. Except if there are “circumstances beyond your control” , in which case you must possess the mental capacity to acknowledge ,accept and understand this lack of control. Essentially, you must learn to “be good with it”and this is where so many overstressed individuals fail- acceptance of things in life that are “out of their control.”

” If you say you will “do it” then do it. Once you “commit” to certain things in life you ought to follow through with them, except….When there are “circumstances beyond your control.” As a result, you should acknowledge and accept this “out of control” factor and … the recipients of said behavior need  and should be understanding of this. If  not, that is “their ” problem, not yours, Let it go…and carry on…:)